tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-58227132024-03-07T03:36:43.223-08:00CBreaux Speaks<i>...after more than nine decades of crowing the sun up</i>Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.comBlogger1322125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-44343170220110203922019-08-07T18:04:00.001-07:002019-08-22T18:02:37.202-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7VCDs7vqEXij7zIwVRshP58ZTrUE98ow78xlQ57fdNQUn73uyvmMRsp9EkzZq40Il0vm4aH_fSRkDtV5dxhHyVWWVgPqzZ0NO-u-YMCGCkjwBZ3kipjvIAIZAKLD2ljZNOpztSw/s1600/img0827web.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="600" data-original-width="800" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7VCDs7vqEXij7zIwVRshP58ZTrUE98ow78xlQ57fdNQUn73uyvmMRsp9EkzZq40Il0vm4aH_fSRkDtV5dxhHyVWWVgPqzZ0NO-u-YMCGCkjwBZ3kipjvIAIZAKLD2ljZNOpztSw/s400/img0827web.jpg" width="400" /></a><b><i>I can barely see my computer through eyes tear-swollen from hours on end of sobbing ...</i></b><br />
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This day, like so many others of late, are filled with seemingly disconnected yet book-ended vignettes brought to life by events I'd never before seen as related ... .<br />
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It was the massacre at El Paso:<br />
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Upon watching the awfulness of the weekend's horrific killings I fell further and further into a deep depression without recognition of what was happening. And it wasn't what was the unbelievably dreadful scenes on the screen, no, not at all. Instead, the mind images were quite different -- giving me a feeling of being out of control -- out of touch! I'd been here before. There was a familiarity about this phenomenon; it was at this point that the convulsive sobbing began:<br />
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The year was 1935. I was fourteen, and traveling to New Orleans as the West Coast family's delegate to the celebration of Mamma´s birthday in St. James Parish. I distinctly remember my mother's telling me (as she pinned my ticket to my coat lapel at Oakland's beautiful 16th Street railroad station) to be sure to watch for the Pullman porter when we reached El Paso because that was where we'd cross the Mason Dixon Line and would officially enter the South. That he would let me know what to do. <br />
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I would have had no reason to know that the Mason Dixon Line was that place where the Free States were separated from where the Slave States began, and that it was at El Paso that this historic line was crossed. I'd grown up in California and, though much of family lore involved stories of Southern bigotry, it was balanced off by a home life rich in Creole cultural traditions.<br />
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We'd been traveling for many hours, days, over a barren arid landscape of sagebrush and sameness hour after-hour, when the train noisily expelling steam lurched into the station at El Paso, Texas. I'd gathered up my things and readied myself to watch for the porter without knowing just what would happen ... so it was with adolescent excitement, and little fear.<br />
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As I watched the porter approach in anticipation and eagerness for the next adventure, he paused at my seat, tapped me on the shoulder with the words (spoken quietly), "please follow me." There were about a do<i>z</i>en Negroes of all ages lined up behind him in the aisle. We were about 3 passenger cars back from our destination, and would continue adding to our numbers as we obediently followed. We were being led to the <i>Jim Crow</i> car, a coach that was the closest to the engine, behind the mail and baggage cars, to where the smoke and noise would be greatest. <br />
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We, Negroes, were being marched past the "Privileged," the "Supremicists," to a separate space lest we contaminate, taint, those who were white-skinned.<br />
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I joined that little procession excited and expectant, but by the time we had walked through 3 cars of grinning, staring, or simply disinterested, white people, I'd gotten the message. The lessons had been learned. <i>Shame</i> and <i>humility</i> had been absorbed through every pore. I would carry them the rest of my life after that long and awkward march of disembodied shame and inexplicable humility. This would be the moment in history when my racial identity would be forever baked into my being; where my black identity would become irrevocably fixed.<br />
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It's interesting that what I took away from that experience was <i>not</i> that degrading and embarrassing lurching march through those passenger cars, but how <i>wonderfully</i> that trip came to life once we "colored folk" were together in that Jim Crow car; how the porters gave us extra pillows and blankets; how the waiters in secret plied us with the best from the diner (where we would not be allowed to enter through to the end of the trip); when those picnic baskets packed with fried chicken and sandwiches prepared lovingly by those southern folks who knew the drill and had come prepared for the sharing. The warmth of the partying that went on, once the harmonicas and a battered guitar surfaced, is with me still. I remember no sign of resistance, no comment on what had just happened to us, I even recall the thought that -- if those white folks learned of how much fun we were having, they'd put a stop to it! But we were bound together in a silent acceptance of "God's Will," or of whatever this was, but even at 14 I was made aware by that experience that I was part of a larger family, at least temporarily. I believe that this is what sustained me through the Sixties, that feeling of an unbreakable relatedness to that greater cause.<br />
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This was the "<i>We</i>" of Me, and it was born in that Jim Crow railroad car just a few miles outside the City of El Paso, by benevolent Pullman porters, and that little band of "Strangers of Color", who shared enough love to take this pretty little stranger across the North/South barrier, the infamous Mason/Dixon Line. A girl who was living proof of what white nationalist's fear most of all. In my racial ambiguity -- my lightly caramelized skin color, <i> I</i> was that <i>mongrel</i> that happens if you let those little white and black kids go to school together; if we don't keep 'em separated in every way, they might <i>love</i> one another! <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBOFoXA25nWJtbyblnKwd68u_Bz4nZPfCG5Rb9P1KeL4EnyWYwbw9KqVXNxx9fzOwthDNmoZiZPQZaciIqzoU11pKgGP_ukaFm61d_Qz5jP8ZMXKLLBwBho-TK9W4ms7bHzfInHA/s1600/http___cdn.cnn.com_cnnnext_dam_assets_180407193141-06-equal-justice-initiative-memorial-restricted.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="357" data-original-width="634" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBOFoXA25nWJtbyblnKwd68u_Bz4nZPfCG5Rb9P1KeL4EnyWYwbw9KqVXNxx9fzOwthDNmoZiZPQZaciIqzoU11pKgGP_ukaFm61d_Qz5jP8ZMXKLLBwBho-TK9W4ms7bHzfInHA/s400/http___cdn.cnn.com_cnnnext_dam_assets_180407193141-06-equal-justice-initiative-memorial-restricted.jpg" width="400" /></a>I do remember several hours of paralyzing fear when two uniformed armed guards boarded the train in the middle of the night and entered our car with two manacled and ankle-chained convicts (white). They were obviously being transferred to a prison somewhere along the run. The four were seated behind a makeshift partition, but were clearly within sight of those of us not yet asleep. Strange. Ironic. As I recall, they were only with us for a few hours, but the fears ran deep, and to this day add insult of a kind that eats away at a young girl's fragile sense of worth.<br />
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That walk in that little procession of shame was tucked away for over a long lifetime in that mind space wherever we stow that which is impossible to understand or process. Until a time in life when one has found enough strength to face the pain of the experience. Until now. Until it explodes from within ... .<br />
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But there were also lessons learned by those we marched past in those three train cars, lessons affirming the rights of <i>white</i> <i>supremacy</i> and <i>privilege</i> -- lessons that were/are so deeply embedded in our nation's DNA -- lessons that are false, deceptive -- <i>lethal</i>, lessons that have this day in August of the year 2019 robbed 22 Texans of their lives, and 9 Ohio-ans as well, and thousands and thousands of other innocent citizens across the centuries, plus 4000 black souls who were brutally lynched in the years following <i>a never processed and still being fought, Civil War. Six million Jews whose lives were lost in the ovens of Hitler's Germany. Lives lost in endless wars against Terrorism. Lives sacrificed upon the Altar of Racial Purity! Lives lost in the futile quest for White Supremacy.</i> </blockquote>
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<i>It is the children and grandchildren of those passengers, and others like them, who are now dying in a hail of bullets as suicide killers in these mass murders.</i> </blockquote>
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<i>How long must we live this horror?</i></blockquote>
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Only through these tears do I begin to fully understand that young Betty who returned to California, and -- a year or two later -- would respond to the drama teacher's admonition after the moving reading of Maxwell Anderson's Winterset, Mariamne's love scene to a hushed audience of other teens, when, after class, she would say, "... we know you read that part very well, Betty, but you<i> do</i> know that we can't possibly cast you in that part? You're playing a scene with Eddie Baptiste who is white, and his parents would simply not be pleased. I'm so sorry." My response (that I remember to this day but never quite understood until this moment) was, "Of <i>course</i>. Whatever was I thinking?" That I would passively drop that class and join the public speaking class being taught by Mr. Bill McLaughlin, making myself complicit in the madness. Shame and humility ... .<br />
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This Winterset story remains so deeply embedded that it was included in my book, Sign my name to Freedom. <br />
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Bookends. So many book ends ...<br />
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That sense of shame and humility was shed long ago, as these pages surely show.<br />
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<i>So why can I not stop crying?</i><br />
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<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-37167839695610701762019-07-07T14:22:00.000-07:002019-07-10T14:20:22.132-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimFx0adyTZ11CnEdQzWO67jBQbnZm4hqdJwaL50A9lmSAL7hxlBnhPc_6hPo9P7QdutKZGc_O4ygYOZa3aTDCZc4i7j9ptjN_l3wE1n74es-hvuNSFpgzX3_cIe6DfZVUz9Ilbiw/s1600/513qeH%252BSbaL.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="500" data-original-width="375" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimFx0adyTZ11CnEdQzWO67jBQbnZm4hqdJwaL50A9lmSAL7hxlBnhPc_6hPo9P7QdutKZGc_O4ygYOZa3aTDCZc4i7j9ptjN_l3wE1n74es-hvuNSFpgzX3_cIe6DfZVUz9Ilbiw/s400/513qeH%252BSbaL.jpg" width="300" /></a><b><i>Oh how I wish that the full spectrum of memory was available to more of us ...</i></b><br />
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... longevity is causing me to gradually become out of sync with the generations below me. That fact alone skews my reality and puts me at odds at a time when those memories could serve these chaotic times far better, as those lessons learned long ago might be renewed. Instead they just go unheeded, and regrettably, re-lived.<br />
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For instance:<br />
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Long forgotten is a time (during the Fifties and beyond) when it took $47.25/wk to support a family of five. Crazy? No. That was the prevailing wage in the economy of those decades of 40-50 years ago. Look it up, don't trust my word. But, of course, that's only true if you were white. Black families were headed by men who were members of the service workers generation. Our fathers and uncles were the Red Caps, the valets, bell hops, Pullman porters, day laborers, elevator operators, garbage men, handy men, cooks and waiters, none acceptable to the Labor Unions. They earned $25-$35/wk. Pullman porters earned $18 a week, plus tips, for a 12-15 hour workday. The fight for entry into the labor unions was still ahead. Even attaining supervisory levels was limited in most industries since black men were still considered unqualified and inferior to white workers. <br />
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My proud father, Dorson Louis Charbonnet, a trained and experienced millwright and builder, once he left the South, could not find employment except as a white-aproned sandwich hawker in a Southern Pacific railroad lunch car! In that role he earned $75/month for most of his life, and with my mother's help, supported our family of 5 and paid off the mortgage on our modest little home in Oakland. Though he worked as a carpenter in later life, he could only join the Union after crossing the color line. Though it was unspoken, I'm certain that he passed for white eventually, as many were forced to do in order to survive.<br />
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But what about those who were too dark-skinned to use this option? Suspecting that Dad was passing was never mentioned, though the fact that we never met anyone of his co-workers, nor were we ever taken to visit his worksite, and the silence around the issue made for a climate of shame that worked to alienate my sisters and me from our parents for much of our lives. Since both my sisters were lighter-skinned than I in the early years, I'm sure that the burden of keeping the secret was most deeply felt by me; as if just being "colored" in a hostile world weren't burden enough for a child.<br />
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Our<i> </i>mothers and our aunts were 35 to 50 cents/hr domestic servants, taking care of white folk's children and cleaning their homes. It had always taken at least two wages to support black families; families who were deliberately and cruelly omitted from the Social Security System by the Roosevelt Administration. From a time when domestic service workers and laborers -- as a class -- were not included. Look it up. An Administration now remembered proudly as "<i>Progressive</i>", an administration that took the nation to war with a segregated armed forces. An Administration that imprisoned 140,000 Japanese and Japanese-Americans during that war, 70,000 of whom were American citizens.<br />
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This is who we were as a nation in those times; times now looked back on as <i>"Great!"</i>, and the time when the <i>"...middle class built this country!</i>" And now I may be one of the few still living who has lived long enough to remember -- at what cost to how many of us?<br />
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We tend to look back and measure social change in terms of values, but seldom do we look back on our lives <i>contextually. </i>It's only when we do so that a true picture of just who we <i>are</i> can be found<i>. And it's only when we look back at those times that we can gain some sense of just how far we've come.</i><br />
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And, may I suggest -- that it is in these election cycles that those measurements can best be taken, but we must remove the blinders while assessing, and face up to our national truths as they were lived by those of us who lived them.<br />
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And we must remember, that we are not living in the same reality -- and rarely if ever has that been true. The America that I've lived in bears little resemblance to that of many others. That's probably as it should be. I don't argue with that. It's from those variables that our richness as a Nation is forged. But the variables should not rise from the inequities and injustices embedded in a flawed social system that bears the awful legacy of slavery, but from the adjustments and corrections we've lived through as a people guided by our founding documents and a heritage of freedom that ensues therefrom -- as we continue the process of forming our "more perfect Union."<br />
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I'll be listening for <i>truth</i> in the upcoming debates over the months ahead, and hoping to live through another election cycle.<br />
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Just one more ... please ...<br />
<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-9256549920368122862019-06-30T11:49:00.002-07:002019-07-05T14:14:02.036-07:00<b><i>I know that the Hatch Act prohibits any political involvements by a federal employee ...</i></b><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhx_3PE2KgNgnTEH6hICWOFQJcE10W3gpxYmO6l-JNDv4LXTXVoBV6iZ-WW9P7rppmriiyKey9r9qhxu35BB2tCL7c5KlNMnzTBPGcIx9uJSMIE3iybNtK5rc8RgsmC8ERNkPxmgw/s1600/lead_720_405.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="405" data-original-width="720" height="361" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhx_3PE2KgNgnTEH6hICWOFQJcE10W3gpxYmO6l-JNDv4LXTXVoBV6iZ-WW9P7rppmriiyKey9r9qhxu35BB2tCL7c5KlNMnzTBPGcIx9uJSMIE3iybNtK5rc8RgsmC8ERNkPxmgw/s640/lead_720_405.jpg" width="640" /></a>... but to opine on things political without endorsing or otherwise supporting particular candidates or issues <i>must</i> be permissible, wouldn't you think?<br />
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I've surely <i>not</i> given up my right to respond to critical issues when they arise. And ever since the debates in Florida this past week, my mind has been spinning! I can think of little else ... .<br />
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The 1954 decision to desegregate the school system set in motion several decades of change that effected the lives of <i>all</i> Americans, regardless of race or ethnicity. Even for those of us who'd moved out of urban centers to the suburbs; the reverberations were inescapable. <br />
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Maybe the fact that my experience was unique in that I was living among the privileged during the 50s, 60s, and 70s, when those changes were so life-changing, and my perspective surely would have varied from the norm.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgU9_JkuLytTgTPnVyMi0WQdOUK5sgcvkJFxuD71tAitjA6vlZZn4eQGCjetr8YtZSm7ivRuSophu2vqJGrbNy78cc3tgu8rnpqEe1S9gr19uRMX6TsIV6-iAd7i9kc1auMpaUORA/s1600/la-1547057729-8knds8unde-snap-image.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="590" data-original-width="800" height="236" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgU9_JkuLytTgTPnVyMi0WQdOUK5sgcvkJFxuD71tAitjA6vlZZn4eQGCjetr8YtZSm7ivRuSophu2vqJGrbNy78cc3tgu8rnpqEe1S9gr19uRMX6TsIV6-iAd7i9kc1auMpaUORA/s320/la-1547057729-8knds8unde-snap-image.jpg" width="320" /></a>Though the lives and opportunities of Black children were altered by the sudden exposure to a richer educational experience, there were also some unexpected consequences for white children. Black kids were being forcibly pushed out into the hostile world of children who were learning hate from a generation of parents who shared their toxic beliefs around the family dinner tables each night, while their children were being gradually freed by new truths of black children they were learning to love and respect in the new social fabric being created by the inclusivity born of federal intervention. For me, it was <i>white</i> kids who were deeply effected by the mandate against racial segregation of the schools in 1954, children who were suddenly catapulted into a new reality in which huge generational differences were being forged. <br />
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At least this was true for those whose social growth wasn't frozen at that level, those who would be forever damaged by the hatred -- and who would later become the troubled and troubling white nationalists of the country.<br />
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It was not only that Black kids were being broadened by the changes, but that the many white kids, as teens and young adults, who willingly moved their privilege to a back burner, becoming the nation-changers by joining with those being shut out of the American Dream. They did so by setting their own dreams aside to join those courageous souls who were the Freedom bus riders at risk of their lives; who moved into the Deep South to do the perilous work of registering blacks to vote; who staffed those Freedom Schools (like my young friend, white Susan Sanford, who left college to do just that). White kids who, later in the Movement, suffered the rejection of the very Blacks they'd sacrificed for -- who dismissed them by sending them back into their own communities to "change those white folks!". <br />
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It was the addition of white voices to the mix that empowered the Civil Rights Movement of the 60s and 70s. The very reason that the federal mandate for school busing in the early 70s came into being was because the climate created by the skirmishes of the 50s and 60s was beginning to give way between generations -- resistance softened by the tumultuous times.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9ddjM4bg-hrLhhXWIPxsWyMtdOlVvHkJsILDfjjRU8M8IGyD2WySnTn8frAaj0QE3PqHznOnk4x-3sWAjuBsGRVTvytRzbnlHST1XUef2bPPJzN2iajPVe8Wzw6u_LMxTsrfyFA/s1600/4_CA_historical_society.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9ddjM4bg-hrLhhXWIPxsWyMtdOlVvHkJsILDfjjRU8M8IGyD2WySnTn8frAaj0QE3PqHznOnk4x-3sWAjuBsGRVTvytRzbnlHST1XUef2bPPJzN2iajPVe8Wzw6u_LMxTsrfyFA/s400/4_CA_historical_society.jpg" width="400" /></a>In the late Sixties, the Flower Children who rose to world attention in San Francisco's Haight-Ashbury were not aliens who'd landed from some distant planet, they were the sons and daughters of my suburban friends and neighbors, kids who'd gone off to the colleges and universities of the nation, met and roomed with kids of color in many cases -- for their first exposure to otherness, and in the process had learned that they'd been hood-winked by that bigoted parental generation -- that many of those new friends and acquaintances were not only equal, but some <i>superior</i> to expectations. <br />
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In 1964 they'd joined with others from across the country to invade the South to bring change, and, upon returning, staked out their conditions for change -- which included not only de-segregation of the races -- but creating a world-changing Anti-Vietnam War movement, supported the drives toward Ethnic Studies on the nation's campuses; and later -- in new more inclusive coalitions, the Women's Movement and of the L.G.B.T.Q wars yet to come.<br />
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Busing was not merely about changing <i>Black </i>folks, it was the culmination of a continuing regimen of change that opened a successive set of doors of opportunity; doors that changed white youth as much as it did those of color.<br />
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It changed us <i>all.</i><br />
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What started such thoughts?<br />
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It was a message in my mailbox yesterday from a reporter, Seema Mehta, from the L.A. Times. She wanted to interview me about the school busing issue (surely fallout from the debate). I responded by answering that she needed to interview someone else because I was simply not qualified to speak on the subject since I was a suburban mother at that time with only one child in school; an all-white school, and that the busing issue was outside my experience. <br />
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Obviously not so, just seeing through a different lens.<br />
<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-88843858363468273722019-06-18T08:13:00.001-07:002019-06-18T08:13:38.358-07:00Fireside Chat with Betty Reid Soskin (Cloud Next '19)<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/9aENjs4Q2Ng" width="480"></iframe>Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-70556262798090622842019-06-17T18:29:00.000-07:002019-06-18T08:46:41.133-07:00<b><i>Love across time, geography, and Space ... .</i></b><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><b>From:</b> Betty Reid Soskin <<a href="mailto:cbreaux@earthlink.net">cbreaux@earthlink.net</a>><br /><b>Date:</b> June 16, 2019 at 8:54:05 AM PDT<br /><b>To:</b> <a href="mailto:rosie.jurick@gmail.com">rosie.jurick@gmail.com</a><br /><b>Subject:</b> <b>Re: Hello and thinking of you on the other side of the world</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Am in Southern California for Alyana’s graduation from UC Irvine.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Yesterday while getting ready to leave home for the airport, looked into my jewelry box and found this little necklace you’ created for the family reunion years ago. Slipped it around my neck. First time ever since that day, I would wear it.<br /><br />Woke suddenly this morning at a Marriott Hotel In Newport Beach to a ding from my IPhone on the nightstand and quite suddenly and unexpectedly -- there you were!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>I have this insistent and inescapable feeling that the soul of an original ancestor, perhaps the ancestor of my great-greatgrandmother, Celestine, mother of my beloved great-grandmother, Leontine, the beleaguered soul who has been wandering the earth for centuries -- has finally found her way home! That you are her embodiment in this century. The Celestine who is the "C" of my 21st Century username, CBreaux, whom I've given voice to in this blog, incidentally, and who had to be preceded in life by the woman who was brought in chains to this country -- and whose existence is shielded behind the slave curtain, and the excruciating painful time spent in captivity ... . All I know about her is the fact that she had to be a musician, a singer perhaps (?) since she still lives in so many of those of us who still walk the Earth.</i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> Find myself wondering if you're still writing songs, and singing them as a part of your work? </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Crazy? Maybe. But before a minute more passes I’m needing to take the attached picture— resisting the need to be “rational”, and explain the magic away.<br /><br />More when I return home and back into a saner place.<br /><br />Love to you both.<br /><br />Grandma</span></div>
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Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-44544458918144837082019-05-27T19:42:00.000-07:002019-06-02T11:43:40.963-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3-n5_A96RkeN7sVqG0QO-F3sM0iyJ5ifAxVN1g-KIzWHoGv269-Nm3u084fCgj73G2XLFNdj8gF3rZ_1Feak8lHK_2sq751L0qntnbBQ68mVNURtmTTZrpjvO092ohSMyLIVUGA/s1600/Screen+Shot+2019-05-26+at+6.14.13+PM.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1600" height="361" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3-n5_A96RkeN7sVqG0QO-F3sM0iyJ5ifAxVN1g-KIzWHoGv269-Nm3u084fCgj73G2XLFNdj8gF3rZ_1Feak8lHK_2sq751L0qntnbBQ68mVNURtmTTZrpjvO092ohSMyLIVUGA/s640/Screen+Shot+2019-05-26+at+6.14.13+PM.png" width="640" /></a><b><i>Another wondrous day ... beyond my wildest dreams ... .</i></b><br />
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On Wednesday, May 22, 2019, I was photographed by the great Annie Liebovitz, and what a day it was!<br />
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The car picked me up at around 8:15 that morning for the short drive to the Visitor Education Center of our Rosie the Riveter/WWII Home Front Historical National Park. I'm taking the time to type this in as complete detail as possible in order to convince myself that it really happened.<br />
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After a brief greeting with this gracious woman, we were driven to a point on the scenic Richmond shoreline where I'd never before been. This magnificent background is a mere 5 minutes, walking, from our Visitor Center. It is <i>dramatic</i>; unexpectedly beautiful, though anywhere along the Bay Trail can be surprising and wilder than one might anticipate. The rock formations, though probably landscaped beyond what might find in a more natural state, are nonetheless beautiful and convincingly random. <br />
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This site would have served during WWII as Kaiser Shipyard II, where some of the 747 ships were built and launched in 3 years and 8 months. An achievement that helped to bring the war to an end by out-producing the enemy.<br />
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That history came alive for me on this day, alive in ways previously dimmed by time ... .<br />
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I have no idea when this work will be published, or, what is its intended use, but at this point I can't say that I very much care. It was the experience of meeting Ms. Liebovitz -- and "disappearing into the art of another" that sings to me!<br />
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She is on an assignment for Google (I believe) using the Google Pixel 3 XL, photographing men and women who are "having an impact" in their time (according to Blaine Edens of Soapbox Productions). She'd come from a shoot at the Museum created by Bryan Stevenson in Montgomery, Alabama -- where the history of lynchings is memorialized through those unforgettable heart-rending sculptures. <br />
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I'm hoping to visit there someday, and at the rate things are going ... .<br />
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Can you imagine that <i>not </i>happening?<br />
<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-41331228429825923312019-05-12T16:57:00.003-07:002019-05-18T09:04:37.006-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHwDNRETL0gaZTTs4ztafJdUeieSXi4_-vBnTFvhUqKNCE2OxaKIOdLmxLAGInbBO75tA1canWPybO-j-KeKmAZEhbA2q71f2fB3wwnPT0xg15Y5W9n7MkxfDtdmmsymfQu0XFVw/s1600/2527600_2527600-R1-E005.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1072" data-original-width="1600" height="267" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHwDNRETL0gaZTTs4ztafJdUeieSXi4_-vBnTFvhUqKNCE2OxaKIOdLmxLAGInbBO75tA1canWPybO-j-KeKmAZEhbA2q71f2fB3wwnPT0xg15Y5W9n7MkxfDtdmmsymfQu0XFVw/s400/2527600_2527600-R1-E005.jpg" width="400" /></a><b><i>Feeling strangely depressed on this Mother's Day ...</i></b><br />
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... and there's a familiar cast to the feelings -- as though being re-visited from some deep place where we keep the unfinished business of life...<br />
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And, maybe I'm not alone, but simply one of the <i>ba-zillion </i>women, worldwide, who have lived into these later years -- having out-lived <i>logic</i> and bereft of the guideposts that we'd been led to expect would be there as we aged into our traditional roles in life ... .<br />
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It's those dim memories, hardly distinguishable from the others, memories of some lines we crossed from childhood through to some ill-defined adulthood within which we somehow survived to be mothers of the young who would succeed us in life. <br />
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I can remember -- at about seventeen -- wanting a little black dress, and being told by my mother that <i>young girls do not wear black,</i> that I must wait until I was a grown woman before that could happen. I believe that I was in my mid-twenties, married, before I owned that little black dress. Not certain of the reason, but I remember it to this day, it was black crepe, bias-cut, and <i>slinky, </i>and worn to a cocktail party hosted by <i>The Woman,</i> a social club I belonged to at that time -- at the Masonic Hall at 30th off San Pablo in Oakland. I DO remember that it felt wicked and sophisticated, but that it in no way changed my feelings of not yet being old enough ... not even as a married woman. <br />
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Maybe when I became a mother ... .<br />
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Nah, not even then.<br />
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I now recall with sadness on this Mother's Day how -- somewhere in mid-life -- I dropped into a major depression marked by an unfathomable feeling of disappointment, of having been somehow tricked when I suddenly discovered myself caught between generations, being the acting-parent of 4 children, in a failing marriage, and facing squarely into a projected life of care-taking of aging parents, 'til death do them part. <br />
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I'd matured into the "sandwich generation" at a time when I was still needing a mother, only problem was that I'd slipped across some kind of generational divide where -- simultaneously -- life was demanding that <i>I</i> become a mother to my own mother ... and there was no conceivable way to reverse the process.<br />
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... and I rose to the occasion, as billions of others had done before me.<br />
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As my own mother had done.<br />
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... it's what women do.<br />
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But, you know what? I truly believe I hit <i>grown-up</i> somewhere around 68!Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-6006534271891031312019-05-05T18:09:00.004-07:002019-05-05T18:12:02.841-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1IYcrfshhn7kn6XresAHOQOiYZJX7Kg39c7qSB0-XL_TIxmMCp8c-pPKIztwpEJfAtZUOxJ3riUhgRA7zSezTB1nVQ3PLa7IbhBfiyg_PPrmQCkFZWOgA6GdnFY1dYBxyzgkVqA/s1600/Betty+in+pulpit.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1052" data-original-width="1600" height="265" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1IYcrfshhn7kn6XresAHOQOiYZJX7Kg39c7qSB0-XL_TIxmMCp8c-pPKIztwpEJfAtZUOxJ3riUhgRA7zSezTB1nVQ3PLa7IbhBfiyg_PPrmQCkFZWOgA6GdnFY1dYBxyzgkVqA/s400/Betty+in+pulpit.jpg" width="400" /></a><b><i>My return to Mt. Diablo Unitarian-Universalist Church in Walnut Creek ... </i></b><br />
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Then and now. <br />
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So much has been lived through by now, and the chance to update that process with an almost totally different congregation -- fascinating! <br />
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The sermon below occurred on a recent Sunday morning, just before taking off on Alaska Airlines for the trip to participate in the conference at the Getty Center hours later the same afternoon.<br />
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But despite the changes, it felt like home.Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-82036973245810388012019-05-05T17:34:00.001-07:002019-05-05T17:34:37.063-07:00Sunday,March 24, 2019 Talk by Betty Reid Soskin "A Legacy of Love: A Ser...<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/jjUBjMNjTG4" width="480"></iframe>Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-63938917962650063062019-04-15T14:30:00.000-07:002019-04-15T15:20:48.278-07:00<b><i>Lessons learned ... even in these late years ... .</i></b><br />
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One week ago, I was a participant in one of the annual Google ICloud conferences in San Francisco. These occur in 3 places, London, Tokyo, and San Francisco. I'm told that there were 3400 gathered in the Moscone Convention Center for 4 days of workshop sessions, and mine was in one of the smaller meeting rooms that held, maybe, 250 people. It was a <i>"Fireside chat with Betty Reid Soskin."</i><br />
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It was during the Powerpoint presentation that I learned for the first time that there is a room at Google headquarters in Silicon Valley named for yours truly! Can you imagine? It was then that I recalled giving a talk there a few years ago, but had no idea that this had happened.<br />
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Lessons learned? Simple one in this case. We're leaving tracks even when we're unaware ... .<br />
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I was aware that one of my songs, "<i>Your hands in mine"</i>, that had been introduced in December at the Paramount theater in Oakland, would be featured in the spring concert of the Symphony's Freedom Choir. What an honor! And Saturday evening was that time, and I was picked up by Ken Saltztine, a member of the choir, and driven to a lovely church site for the event. I could hardly wait to hear how it would be arranged, and presented. This was another of those rare occurrences that are now happening with some regularity, accompanied by a course of elevated adrenaline splashes and sleepless nights for days preceding.<br />
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Arriving early, I would sit in a pew with a hand-drawn sign announcing that this was "reserved" for V.I.P's, status I'd never quite found myself formally a member of -- with wired nerve ends, alone, waiting ...<br />
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Just before the clock struck eight, Maestro Michael Morgan slipped in beside me, the choir of 108 voices began to file in; the stately choir director, Dr. Lynne Morrow, entered down the center aisle dramatically taking her place at the podium ...<br />
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I'd checked the program and found the title of my little song just past the middle and before the intermission, following directly the great hymn of the Civil Rights days, <i>"We shall overcome."</i><br />
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The program was absolutely brilliant! It consisted of Negro spirituals, all familiar and much-loved. We proceeded through <i>Ain't got time to die,</i> <i>Kumbiya</i>, <i>Ain't nobody gonna turn me 'roun'</i> etc., then one of the most beautiful arrangements of "<i>We shall overcome</i>" (5 choruses), that I've ever heard, and sung with the passion of professionals with a message. <br />
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Then Dr. Morrow introduced my simple little song-- all 2 minutes and 26 seconds of it -- giving the explanation of why it was written and under the circumstances of my response to the treatment the courageous Fannie Lou Hamer faced at the 1964 Democratic Convention -- and I suddenly felt uncomfortable -- embarrassed, wondering how on earth I ever had the <i>audacity </i>to believe that <i>I</i> could <i>ever</i> write <i>anything </i>worthy enough to take the place of that amazingly powerful song that had brought us together at a time when our courage as a people may have been wavering; when our lives were being threatened, and when our voices were providing the sound track for the tumultuous Era of the Sixties?</blockquote>
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The soloist, who stepped out of the choir to be <i>me</i> in this moment, did a wonderful job, and pain of it was quickly over; both the feelings and the song. <br />
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Maybe, what was familiar about these feelings of discomfort was the reason my music had been hidden away in the back of my closet for fifty years, this feeling of <i>unworthiness.</i> Yet, at the Paramount theater in December I'd felt triumphant in sharing this song before that audience of friendly strangers.<br />
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Why had I not felt this way the night before when this same little song had been sung by children of the Oakland Performing Arts School? It felt so right just 24 hours ago! Fitting. Those middle school kids did such a wonderful job, and the song was so well received by their parents and teachers in that audience. What made this different? <br />
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Why did I have this feeling that somehow, all those many years ago, I'd stepped inappropriately over some line, and my private war with President Lyndon Baines Johnson had spilled over into some V.I.P. "reserved" territory where, I forgot that <i>I was not a composer</i>, but an interloper daring to enter a world that lay far beyond my capacities. <br />
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Crazy?<br />
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Find myself wondering which of these feelings will prevail as we go forward? <br />
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<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-67226734270992025132019-04-07T15:32:00.000-07:002019-04-08T13:17:08.326-07:00<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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<b><i>Just returned from Missoula, Montana, and my third appearance as a part of the cast of The Moth ..</i></b><br />
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Our audience was at capacity in the historic Wilma Theater in downtown Missoula, a town with more cowboy hats than I've ever seen in one place--and I'm a lifelong resident of the furthest reach of the West Coast! <br />
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I tend to forget that the San Francisco Bay Area's cosmopolitan character has lost its western flavor entirely. One has to travel inland to find John Wayne's America; I'd forgotten that. It's easy enough to do since we're now characterized by skyscrapers that boast the most <i>phallic </i>skyline on the West Coast, shouting "My building's bigger than your building" in aluminum, steel, glass, and towering structures that defy logic or most people's budgets! Looking at the landscape as we approached the landing strip makes one conscious of how densely we're now populated in the urban areas, and how much open space there is just beyond our borders. It made a mockery of our leader's insistence that the southern borders be shut down immediately since, <i>"we have no more room to share with immigrants."</i><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwSGoKOEbfd6NKfeFXoFfa8USfyvi-uA98BB8FwPjKk7_A-UkdmcQBInyR3M2QyUHLtu9DJUuIhuyad7AVPZkMqoUD21mKMOdo0Ox_-o3GieSRzA40-b9_6e1k3EZR7xTWRXXWUA/s1600/th.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="266" data-original-width="474" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwSGoKOEbfd6NKfeFXoFfa8USfyvi-uA98BB8FwPjKk7_A-UkdmcQBInyR3M2QyUHLtu9DJUuIhuyad7AVPZkMqoUD21mKMOdo0Ox_-o3GieSRzA40-b9_6e1k3EZR7xTWRXXWUA/s400/th.jpg" width="400" /></a>But I digress.<br />
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One of the films in which my personal life is being depicted, is almost ready for release. Carl Bidleman's long awaited work is nearly ready to be submitted for approval to the Committee on Ethics at the Department of Interior. Since it is based on my life as a park ranger with the National Park Service, this is a necessary step before approval for public release. <br />
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Can't help but wonder how it will be once that happens ... when even during the last two trips, due to the recent bursts of public exposure caused by the Glamour Magazine award, I was recognized in two airports -- once by a security agent! That's to be expected when in uniform, but when not ... I'm always taken by surprise, and a mixture of pleasure and dismay.<br />
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I'm so conflicted upon arrival at airports when ordering my wheelchair (yes!) as my physician has directed me to do with the words, "you've earned it, Betty. At 97 you should not expect yourself to navigate through the long lines at security or the endless trek to the Gates." In response I've developed a convenient slight limp to justify the request, then pray fervently that there's no one in that crowd who will recognize me as, "the oldest park ranger in the National Park Service!" Anyone who really knows me will surely know that I'm capable of one hell of a lot of activity in any one day without even breathing hard!<br />
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But the fact that my "handicap" was not evident (I'm assuming), and as my chair was wheeled to the place in the security line where one must be checked for metal, this time I was taken aside for a "pat down". A strange thing occurred there that surprised me. A young woman, apologetically and gently, passed her gloved hands over my body and--rather than outrage--I found myself smiling and pleased, reminded of how long it has been since I'd been touched in quite this way by another human being ... and when living alone in these final years ... how little reason there is for that to happen. I'd almost forgotten ... .<br />
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What is not known is that continuing to travel comes at a cost. I really <i>am </i>experiencing a level of fear and confusion in those long lines of travelers in their bare feet and rushing past to heaven knows where ... . It's hard to admit that I may not be any longer in control of whatever it takes to find my way through international airports, and that doing it alone may no longer be either practical or safe. Were it not for my daughter, Diara, following my wheelchair ready to re-direct in the case of problems, my gallivanting days might well be over. But, for the moment, we're still ready to go wherever life takes us.<br />
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Thank heaven for wheelchair service! It takes much of the fear away, and makes it possible to continue to travel to adventures and experiences that would otherwise be beyond reach.<br />
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Not ready to give up quite yet ... .<br />
<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-41271001443958767732019-03-29T12:42:00.000-07:002019-03-29T12:46:34.645-07:00<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Mayor of New Orleans, Mitch Landrieu and John Legend</td></tr>
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<b><i>This statement welcoming the participants to the Conference is an important one to share, I believe ... .</i></b><br />
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<b>According to Nielsen, Americans watch an average of 36 hours of television every week, making TV writers, producers, and executives among the most influential change makers of our time. By determining whose lives are reflected on screen, storytellers who work in TV directly impact, more than ever in history of the medium, our shared perception of what's real and what's possible.</b> </blockquote>
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<b><br /></b><b>Few opportunities exist for members of the content-creation community to gather and discuss how to better wield this far-reaching cultural impact. That changes today: The purpose of <i>A Day of Unreasonable Conversation</i> is to "interrupt your regularly scheduled programming" with new ideas and interlocutors. Our hope is that the conversation will carry far beyond this gathering as you return to your writers rooms, energized to move the story of progress forward. </b> </blockquote>
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<b>Thanks you for being here.</b></blockquote>
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<b><i> Greg Propper, Founder</i></b><br />
<b><i> A Day of Unreasonable Conversation, </i></b><br />
<b><i> President, Propper Daley</i></b><br />
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host committee:<br />
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Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-82613101393888735932019-03-29T11:59:00.000-07:002019-03-29T12:06:26.867-07:00<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<b><i>I can't imagine that so much time has passed since I last sat down to post ... .</i></b><br />
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... but the blame is with the impossible pace of my life these days, and surely not because there has been nothing to say.<br />
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Since the experience with the Oakland Symphony, I've faced into the winds of changes unimaginable only a year ago. <br />
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The publication of <i>Sign my name to freedom</i> has opened the gates wide into the world of authors where I'm a complete stranger but eager student. Having been graciously accepted into the new worlds of technology through participating in events for Google, Facebook, Salesforce, Adobe, Nike, etc., in recent months, and having now stumbled into that of Virtual Reality through the artistry of Gary Yost, it feels almost surreal.<br />
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But all of that pales in the face of last Monday, spent as one of many <i>Change Makers</i> from all over the country at the <i>Unreasonable Conversations Conference </i>at the Getty Center in Los Angeles. <br />
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This was a gathering of the writers, directors, producers, funders, for the television industry. By invitation, only, these 350 communicators were brought together as audience to those of us considered the change-makers of our times to inform the work of those who will influence the public discourse over the next decade through their work and artistry. What an assignment!<br />
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Taken from the brochure of the sponsoring agency, <b><i><span style="font-size: large;">Propper Daley:</span></i></b><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;">"Reasonable people adapt to the world; the unreasonable ones persist in trying to adapt </span></i></b><span style="font-size: large;"><b><i>the world to themselves. Therefore, all progress depends on unreasonable people."</i></b></span></blockquote>
George Bernard Shaw (adapted)<br />
<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-9169228085839515752019-01-20T11:30:00.001-08:002019-02-02T10:34:05.859-08:00<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<b><i>I never dreamed that the day would come when words would fail ... .</i></b><br />
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... yet that day has arrived, and the effects upon my psyche are unimaginable.<br />
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Since the memorable experience of the Paramount theater concert, I've met Gary Yost and his magical camera and brilliant artistry with results that are truly indescribable. But I'll try, while knowing that I'm attempting the impossible.<br />
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In this photo taken about a week ago at a film shoot backstage at the Paramount theater and received only today, I'm sitting on a stool being filmed in Virtual Reality. When completed, I will be describing , in a short piece, the story of the experience of singing with the symphony two weeks ago <i>while watching myself surrounded by the orchestra and 3 choirs! </i> Gary Yost and Bryan Gibel, the producer/director of the documentary , <i>"Sign my name to freedom,"</i> now in progress and to be released early next year, have combined talents to create this 8-minute mind-boggling VR piece that will accompany the documentary when shown at film festivals and elsewhere. The footage of my performance with the Oakland symphony <i>would be superimposed</i> upon this new scene of Betty the Elder sitting on that stool re-living the unforgettable experience of December 12th in this historic landmarked space.<br />
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Watching oneself (and, yes, I've acquired an Oculus headset that allows for that) in this manner is about as close to living an out-of-body experience that one possibly can have, short of a hologram.<br />
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By pre-arrangement they'd brought together several theater staff to open the theater early in the day to meet with us, to grant access to the backstage area, and to provide the necessary lighting for the filming. It was all accomplished in a single take and, with a "thumbs up" signal and within about 40-minutes, we were finished and on our way to our various homes. Had those highly-talented professionals not become engaged in animated side chats about the cameras, exposures, possibilities of the new technology, with the fascinated theater folks, we might well have accomplished it all in even less time.<br />
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The dramatic results (downloaded from a computer in his Marin County studio and uploaded into a headset in my home in Richmond after step-by-step instructions by cellphone) I've now viewed and wept over the fact that I'm not only contained in that headset, but along with the likes of Ram Dass and Peter Coyote and, when completed, 98 others, and that I'm now able to watch myself as the world sees me, and listen to myself as the world hears me, and that my descendants will do so as long as there's a planet to stand on ... .<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><b><i>At a Salesforce Diversity Conference<br />on a VR "Serengeti Tour" with Smokey</i></b></span><br />
<b><i>in the year 2017</i></b></td></tr>
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And, if you insist upon asking just how in the world <i>I</i> was included in that list, then we'll just have to part company. That would mean that you'd be questioning Al Jazzera, Der Spiegel, The Guardian, Glamour Magazine, The National Parks Conservancy Association, the National Parks Service, CBS, British Airways, United, the South Korean National Parks, the National Women's History Project, the Sierra Club, People for the Global Majority, etc., etc., etc, and were that to happen it would bring down the entire <i>House of Cards</i>! <br />
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I have <i>no </i>idea, but no longer question the workings of the God of Whomever Makes Such Decisions, and simply accept them with as much grace as can be mustered through the grins of disbelief at the sheer <i>audacity</i> of the young in this technological and competitive world of lightning-quick advances and Lists of What- or Whom-ever for What-ever!<br />
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What I <i>do</i> know is that Gary Yost is collecting <i>"Wisdom Leaders"</i> of this century in VR to be archived for later viewing by succeeding generations. Later, meaning that my great-great-great-grandchildren, centuries from now, will be able to sit in a room with me in this process that is shot with one of the 14(?) such cameras in-the-world that takes 360 degree images with its 10 camera coverage -- (see what I mean?). Indescribable.<br />
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How thrilling it would be if I could sit for just a few minutes at the feet of my great-grandmother, Leontine, who was born in 1846 and enslaved throughout her childhood and adolescence -- but who lived to be 102, surviving until 1948. I <i>knew </i>her, and was 27 years-old when we received word of her death. What I would give to have been able to listen to her stories as I live out my time on the planet ...<br />
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That -- and this defies logic -- combined with the fact that this is all sponsored by the Long Now Foundation, who is creating the <i>beyond</i> one's wildest imaginings, the 10,000 year clock housed in a cave somewhere in Texas -- funded by Jeff Bezos.<br />
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<i>See what I mean? </i><br />
<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-6453849910007347022019-01-06T14:46:00.001-08:002019-04-14T13:26:16.397-07:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<b><i>It has now been over two weeks of the governmental Shutdown ... .</i></b><br />
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... and I'm slowly leaving my park ranger identity and assuming the role of private citizen. The fact that -- not only has the break in the daily routine of going to work been upsetting -- but that I have need now to remind myself by sneaking peeks at my cellphone to see just what day I'm in the middle of. Reminding myself that I'm old and that not remembering what day this is may be the first symptom of the dreaded Alzheimers!<br />
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I'm also beginning to disconnect from the need to never speak harshly of anyone in federal government since I'm an employee of same. That means that I listen to our fearless leader responding to questions from the inquiring press when asked if he ever thinks about the federal workers now idle and without paychecks ... <i>"most of them are in support of my position!" </i> Not! <br />
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I miss not only my paycheck, but those friends with whom I spend my days, the audiences who come to hear my presentations, those moments before entering our little theater when I sit behind the exhibits at the windows facing the waters and watching the soaring gulls and brown pelicans, the sassy crows, the cormorants and other unidentified birdlife, the graceful sailboats, the Bay Trail cyclists, and the wind in that giant eucalyptus that stands just off the entrance to our Visitor Center. I miss the interrupted rhythm of my life and work, in this, the most important and final period of my life.<br />
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Then -- as I allow my mind to wander -- I think to myself that this nation is protected by not only the southern border, but by the Atlantic and Pacific oceans on the East and West, plus a one-third <i>longer</i> northern border that stands undisputed and open! Were I a terrorist, where do you suppose I'd choose to enter? <br />
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And why, do you suppose, have I never seen a chart where "illegals" from above that <i>northern </i>border were quantified and challenged? We've been told almost daily about the estimated 22 million "illegals" who are in this country from Mexico, Honduras, El Salvador, Guatemala, etc., but never have I seen a figure for those from Canada who've over-stayed their visas or who are in this country without the required permission or authority.<br />
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The "elephant in the room"? <br />
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You don't suppose ... .<br />
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Nah. It's just that we don't want those from s--t hole countries! Denying entry to our democracy by skin color would be unthinkable, right?<br />
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<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-84627346151158225662019-01-01T17:17:00.000-08:002019-04-14T13:29:02.994-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHLbFh6Pc93i_2o7tMPlZ8zHzCFa-vXiR2OkWZLYgO4Gi5P7xy-23cqBzrtWCxh6Y47P6HCmnNNDVteqJYUm_KfchSfeOhC6WCa7JV1Uh8e0zaPeF_hEfwWXbUfeGrglaqM-gVWA/s1600/Inauguration+2009+-+187.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1072" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHLbFh6Pc93i_2o7tMPlZ8zHzCFa-vXiR2OkWZLYgO4Gi5P7xy-23cqBzrtWCxh6Y47P6HCmnNNDVteqJYUm_KfchSfeOhC6WCa7JV1Uh8e0zaPeF_hEfwWXbUfeGrglaqM-gVWA/s400/Inauguration+2009+-+187.jpg" width="267" /></a>T<b><i>houghts are still a-jumble despite the attempts to arrange the words in some kind of logical order so that they make sense ... </i></b><br />
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They come from different time periods in my life, and are a testimony to the fact that life is not linear; that lessons come in bunches divided by time in irrational ways.<br />
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There's the piece that serves as an important backdrop to my childhood and youth -- that piece where, underlying everything else was the<i> rage</i> that would go unrecognized for decades. Rage around the lack of fulfillment of America's promise of "Liberty and justice for all" as recited regularly in the Pledge of Allegiance, or, as those stated in the Constitution and Bill of Rights. The words were meaningless to me, expressing little more than the empty visions of slave-owning white men whose wisdom stopped at the door of their great plantations and blinded them to the humanity of so many who would survive the brutality of slavery and the dehumanizing lifetime of racism and bigotry, of lynchings and Jim Crow, all still lived out in more subtle forms in contemporary life in our country.<br />
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That rage had served me well, it straightened my spine and enabled me to face into the winds of the continual unfolding of ever-changing patterns of discrimination as I aged into adulthood and the need to recreate a world that my children could live in with others in way that would serve the common good.<br />
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What came to me on that 7-hour flight home from NY was that there had always been a missing piece -- one so obvious that at my advanced age I wondered why this epiphany had not appeared earlier in my long life?<br />
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<i>There is no Office of Fulfillment, Commission on Fairness, Department of Peace, Deity, Avatar, Bureau, Committee, Board or Secretary of Fulfillment. That must come from us all. And -- it was clear that -- just as I'd crossed some threshold in mid-life when I claimed my right to self-identify; to stop waiting to be shaped by the men I'd chosen, I've always been free to be self-defined; to claim my right to express my woman-ness. It was simply that the culture in which I was living had failed to inform me of this important right, so I'd lived a life of being simply negative space to the positive space provided by the men in my life.</i></blockquote>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><b>With the Emmett Till Family in a visit to<br />the National Museum of African American History and Culture in Washington</b></span></td></tr>
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At SUNY Broome I'd moved into the realization that -- somewhere over past decades I'd crossed another threshold, an important one. I -- without knowing how or when -- had become a "Fulfiller!" And it was critically important to know that each of us, with any luck at all, matures into the role -- and this may be the hidden secret of how the "Democracy" is maintained and nurtured over time. We each carry a tiny piece of it, and that <i>spirit</i> is what sustains each of us, but lies silently in the wings awaiting the "claiming".<br />
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It was also revealed on that long flight over those <i>"... amber waves of grain"</i> that victimhood is incompatible with "Fulfiller-ship". I'm not certain when that changed, but that my life today -- unlike that of earlier years -- is no longer being lived as a victim. Oh, how one might wish to know the prescription for <i>that</i> outcome! <br />
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I came home in dread of the following week when I would be filmed as a "singer". Being presented in the annual holiday concert at the Paramount Theater in a sold-out theater. I would be standing on a stage backed up by 3 choruses and a full symphony orchestra for my 2-minute 26-second song! I was terrified! But I'd learned in the wake of SUNY Broome that I'd become a "<i>Fulfiller"</i> and that it was in <i>that </i>role that the positivity of what happened in that small auditorium, the warmth in those hugs, the selfies, had all come from the fact that I'd brought <i>that</i> role into the room with me, and that I'd made some small difference in the lives of those students. I did not come as a justifiably enraged Betty, but as something else not yet identified. That all I had to do was to own that truth, and to allow that realization to grant me the power to self-define; and to <i>claim</i> my right to do so. To define my terms for performing as the storyteller that I've grown into, and not the "singer" envisioned by the filmmakers or others -- something I'd never aspired to be.<br />
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And on all scores, I'd found and granted -- fulfillment ... .<br />
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An unanticipated gift from the students and faculty of SUNY Broome. <br />
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Maybe the simple fact that -- as a long-lived adult in the room, one who had survived the tests of a people struggling to perfect that "...more perfect Union," and who <i>still</i> believes in the dream of democracy ... gave some hope to those young people. Those who will help to find the answers to the unfulfilled promises of the future ... for those who will follow. As had we who'd stepped into the footsteps of those generations who preceded ours. For those who have yet to learn that Democracy is a <i>process</i> that <i>will never stay fixed</i>. That it was never intended to be. That each generation has to re-create it in its time, or it will surely die. And that each of us born into it has a responsibility to enliven the dream as we move through our time on the planet. <br />
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It was a memorable evening that is still with me when I close my eyes and revisit ... but no more so than on that 7-hour flight over those spacious skies ... .Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-43046772081080161602018-12-28T15:12:00.000-08:002018-12-29T11:07:36.957-08:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqXau1MCThrwRYL47jn0qygu7TCJdGU79QYo84WSDlNaaE7s6a1XxbZjrY1z1s5tGKb0vAfwkzX8R23K6ezruSiZFkh1qWGuPAQxLya1bg5zPen3TMNn92xIGaXs9jtL7fPhItCQ/s1600/th-1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="178" data-original-width="237" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqXau1MCThrwRYL47jn0qygu7TCJdGU79QYo84WSDlNaaE7s6a1XxbZjrY1z1s5tGKb0vAfwkzX8R23K6ezruSiZFkh1qWGuPAQxLya1bg5zPen3TMNn92xIGaXs9jtL7fPhItCQ/s320/th-1.jpg" width="320" /></a><b><i>And I've still not written about my life-changing trip to SUNY Broome ... .</i></b><br />
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Some months ago I'd received an invitation to speak at SUNY Broome Community College in Upstate New York. Not feeling comfortable accepting commitments that lie far in the future (I believe this would have been for Commencement) but really excited and flattered at the invitation, I passed the request along to my agent in NY for consideration. She explained my reluctance despite interest, and explained that I would be on the East Coast for another engagement quite soon (this was the Glamour event) which opened the possibility of adding a visit to Bloome to my itinerary<br />
Plans were immediately made for a day or two extension to accommodate the trip to Bloome.<br />
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It was a 3-hour drive for a 1-hour commitment, and -- as it turned out -- worth every moment.<br />
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After a lunch at a local cafe we drove to the nearby campus to be greeted by a member of the administrative staff who turned out to be a FaceBook friend who had been reading my posts and blog for a long time, which ended in her bringing about this invitation that placed us on this campus on this freezing day in Upstate New York. You never know, right?<br />
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She met us in the parking lot and -- and in that strange way that social media has of brushing away the irrelevancies so that one is allowed to start in the middle of the 10th paragraph with total strangers, we came together. We met as old friends and proceeded to a small auditorium filled with students and faculty -- waiting. And, as usual, I had no idea of what I would say, nor was I regretting that I'd not prepared notes for this important occasion. I'd just be <i>Betty </i>again, in public, and important things would happen. I've learned to trust that. It's what I <i>do. </i>Especially in recent years as I <i>consciously </i>age into the unknown with this clarified sense of the preciousness of time and of these human interactions toward the common good.<br />
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There is something vitally important as one ages -- the sense of no long <i>becoming</i> -- but <i>be-ing.</i> One needn't prepare, make notes, anticipate, for that. In the moments left to me, I tend to skip the preliminaries and just <i>BE!</i><br />
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Intuitive soul that I am, there were no more than a few minutes -- after the introductions -- to feel the deep <i>despair </i>in that room. It was palpable, tangible, heavy ... .<br />
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I spoke for about an hour - including the Q&A -- and that feeling left the room with me, hung over me through the drive back to Manhattan, and remained overnight and throughout the flight back to the Bay Area.<br />
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It was strange in that I felt both saddened and elated, simultaneously, as I re-visited Broome in my imagination over the days ahead. Wondered if what I'd felt in that room was the general angst of the young who are living in these days of chaos, uncertainty, and gloom; of the dire predictions of global warming and climate change; of a sense of no one of consequence or maturity at the helm of an out of control government ... .<br />
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Elated because -- as I left that room -- I'd felt the warmth, the <i>humanity</i> in those hugs, in a firm sense that somehow, despite all, we'd touched souls that day, and that I'd made a difference.<br />
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And that's a story that needs a space of its own ... because the difference it made was not in that audience, but in <i>me.</i>Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-73946833304228378632018-12-27T17:38:00.002-08:002018-12-28T15:37:28.896-08:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<b><i>So much life has been lived over past months ... . </i></b><br />
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... life that was so all-consuming that the time to write about it simply never turned up, and the events were so unimaginable -- so "over-the-top" that I've just told myself that no one would ever believe it anyway, so -- like the tree-lighting ceremony with the Obamas that happened in Washington two years ago -- I'd just pretend that I'd dreamed it all ... .<br />
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And, yes, months ago I learned that I was being named one of Glamour magazine's "Women of the Year," and that I was being flown to New York for what was described as "the major event of the year!"<br />
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It was fortunate that it was all under wraps, not to be revealed until announced by the magazine when it hit the stands. Who would have believed it anyway? <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjimLqec0H0FeQdauFN6X94Vi9N4BjDuniSQk14NdYSZelIClDqIQ4yw1dtOG73LU9yIhUcMZzJ6EjKQChqK-QAi2uAdp9_SgLlT368F3ho0a9dHOnIdgV9c0gZslAtFMJhnjrhRw/s1600/betty-embed.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1200" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjimLqec0H0FeQdauFN6X94Vi9N4BjDuniSQk14NdYSZelIClDqIQ4yw1dtOG73LU9yIhUcMZzJ6EjKQChqK-QAi2uAdp9_SgLlT368F3ho0a9dHOnIdgV9c0gZslAtFMJhnjrhRw/s400/betty-embed.png" width="400" /></a>I learned that two of the other honorees were Senator Kamala Harris and Oscar winning actor, Viola Davis. Of course there was the Red Carpet experience (you simply would not believe!) with a gauntlet of every known print and online publication known to man, all against a backdrop of sponsors (Conde Naste, Mercedes Benz, Loreal Paris , etc., etc., etc., and all clad in finery pre-selected by "my stylist!" and driven from all of the assignments in a Mercedes limo with banners attached announcing "Woman of the Year." How on earth could I possibly feel worthy of so much attention, even considering that I've lived long enough to have entered the status where I'm awarded trophies and proclamations just because I can still tie my own shoes! (<i>Hold the Velcro!)</i><br />
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This was the most exciting week I've lived since the last time it happened. And it seems to be my new normal -- but why so late? Having lost all sense of "future", and now firmly mired in NOW, it's heady and waaaaay beyond any known limits!<br />
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The only discordant note was that on Sunday morning, just before appearing as a speaker for the Glamour's Summit, I was scheduled for a televised segment being interviewed by two young girls (9 and 12, I believe) for the company that manufactures Barbie. Mattel?<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><b>Betty in borrowed finery</b></span></td></tr>
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Arrived on time and was led to a portable studio to my two interviewers only to discover that the research staff had misled them. No one among the many professionals gathered to capture this as media content had realized that the first question out of the box was irrelevant. <br />
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With a collection of variously-costumed Barbies displayed on a small table between us, I was asked to talk about some of my childhood experiences with Barbie. With the cameras rolling I could only announce that I had <i>no</i> Barbie experiences since I was <i>older than Barbie</i>, and that she didn't exist when I was a child! Oops! I was unwilling to fake it, but did find some related chatty things to talk with the children about, but down deep I was all "a-giggle", imagining how this would read when I blogged about it later. It was a little like the time that I was in the room with countless celebrities and the only one I recognized was Miss Piggy! <br />
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Finding myself far out of context much of the time these days, but if you, at 97, have a chance to be dressed by a New York stylist for an evening that starts with a walk up the Red Carpet? Take it! It beats hell out of Friday night Bingo at the local Senior Center!<br />
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<br />Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-6216452875830806572018-12-21T16:40:00.001-08:002018-12-23T10:41:15.046-08:00<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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<b><i>Lessons learned ... .</i></b><br />
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Leading up to the big debut of my song last weekend I'd experienced a great deal of anxiety, both about the concert, but mostly about singing again after so many years. Could hardly recall when I'd experienced such feelings of resistance. <br />
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The producer/director had been coaxing with increasing pressure for months. My son, Bob, whose opinion I value, had concurred in the belief that this was something that I could do, and that my fears were without cause. "You can DO this, those throat muscles only need to be exercised and the vocal tones will return." Nothing they could say was convincing enough for me to whomp up enough desire for trying to slip back into that younger Betty's persona, especially since I'd been re-introduced to her through those rediscovered 50-year-old tapes -- and was intimidated by her talent. <i>She</i> could have done this with ease, but not the aged present-day Betty. That was i<i>mpossible</i>.<br />
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I'd taken my guitar out of the case on more than one occasion over recent weeks and tried to find that voice ... . It was simply no longer there. I was convinced that those around me were fooling themselves, and that I was being led into the "cringe zone"!<br />
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Nonetheless, the film was becoming more and more dependent upon this scene that would be staged at the magnificent Paramount theater, and I could certainly understand how dramatic that might be to have me leading that huge audience in the singing of my little hymn -- what a statement this might make. But could we not simply get one of the soloists from the chorus to step into that role? Would not that be fairer to my deserving little song?<br />
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I had enough ego to fantasize myself wistfully into that scene, but each time the occasions arose that moved it closer and closer, the greater the panic grew until I could feel myself having difficulty breathing deeply enough to maintain any sense of calm whenever I tried to imagine myself into that role.<br />
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On Saturday evening, on the eve of the concert, there was a breakthrough. It was an "Aha!" moment, and I told the filmmaker that I needed to speak with the director at the rehearsal scheduled for the next day.<br />
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I had figured out the problem, and how I might meet the expectations of all concerned.<br />
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It was that I'd learned while meeting with the chorus a few days earlier that my introduction would be through the Maestro followed by Dr. Morrow taking over to tell the audience how the song came about. I was shaken by that since I'd assumed up until that moment that<i> I </i>would present my song and its genesis. I now knew what needed to happen.<br />
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Suddenly I felt at peace:<br />
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I am <i>not</i> a singer. I once was, but that identity had been long lived away, and there would be no stepping back in time. I am a <i>storyteller.</i> Even in my songs, this is who I've always been. Over time this is who I've become in my work with the Park Service, and if Lynne Morrow told the story of my song, I would enter from stage right as a "<i>has-been" singer.</i> My voice may now be unpredictable and unreliable, but that doesn't matter one whit to Betty the Storyteller. <br />
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I would meet with Dr. Morrow at this final rehearsal and explain the breakthrough. I could not perform comfortably unless the story of how "Your hand in mine" came into being was allowed to be <i>a part of my performance</i>. It would take no more than two minutes to tell, but would allow me to present myself more honestly, as the <i>storyteller</i> that I've become.<br />
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And <i>by claiming the right to define myself,</i> the anxiety disappeared and the performance lived up to my own expectations.<br />
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It only took a few minutes to find that this would be possible, and that she would notify Conductor Michael Morgan of the change. Both graciously accepted my last minute program change. <br />
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Problem solved.Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-88439457674662826682018-12-19T11:10:00.002-08:002018-12-29T20:30:35.950-08:00Oh MY!<br />
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Here 'tis ... and can you imagine that my little hand-holding song written in protest in 1964 would be sung to life after being hidden away for all these years -- no, <i>decades</i>? Not only this, but there were 3 separate choirs who were also singing along, breathing life into the moment with me.<br />
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It was <i>surreal </i>... .<br />
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It was a moment in time when the world stood still sharing with me in this incredible remembrance of the fearless, embattled, unbelievably courageous Fanny Lou Hamer facing down the entire Democratic Convention of that year against an intractably crude and vulgar President Lyndon Baines Johnson who would crush this upstart black woman who might threaten his hopes for retaining his southern block constituency. I'd learned by this time from words revealed by his African American long-time driver (his name was Robert Parker, I believe) that -- as it was moving through the legislature toward passage in 1965, he would always refer to his long-awaited Voters Rights Act as "mah Nigga Bill"!<br />
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Only a short time later that same conflicted Lyndon Johnson -- after passage of the most enabling civil rights legislation -- after being psychologically bruised and battered by Vietnam resisters on the nation's streets and on our campuses -- after the life-changing assassinations of the Kennedys and Dr. King and Malcolm X -- in his plea for unity in the country, he appeared on television dramatically ending his impassioned speech with the words "... and <i>WE </i>shall overcome!"<br />
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I'd watched him through tears of rage -- standing before the nation expropriating this sacred rallying song that had seen us through some of the most horrendous years we'd ever lived.<br />
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All of the women that I'd ever been stood there with me on on that stage on Sunday -- reveling in the splendor of that magnificent space -- and feeling every moment of it in every fiber of our being!<br />
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The next day this young mother's response was to create a new alternative hand-holding song, "Your hand in mine". I would no longer sing We Shall Overcome. Not ever again. My little song was never published, but took its place among the others in the "shoe box" in the back of my closets, but now it would live.<br />
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And it did!<br />
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Amen.<br />
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<b><i>Your hand in mine ... .</i></b><br />
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On Sunday, December 16th, the Oakland Symphony under the direction of Maestro Michael Morgan, the Symphony chorus led by Director Lynne Morrow, and I, will premiere one of my songs from long ago at the annual Holiday Concert at the Paramount theater. Can you imagine?<br />
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Met with the arrangers (orchestra and chorus) on Tuesday for the first run through, and it was overwhelming. On Wednesday evening I met the full Chorus.<br />
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My voice is no longer predictable, and the connections between brain and whatever made possible the lovely music that I can still hear from that young Betty on secreted tapes and recordings now available on my cell phone(!) is nowhere to be found. I open my mouth, position my lips for delivery, and what comes out is unrecognizable by this elder woman with whom I now share this body. <br />
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Were it not for the filmmaker's urging, I could never have agreed to do this, truly. They're envisioning a climactic closing scene in the 90 minute documentary in progress, but it seems foolhardy at best.<br />
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I might have found a solution, though: By posting the lyrics here it's just possible that I can guide my Facebook friends to download them and join me in the singing. Since I will be singing with the full orchestra and chorus who will be with me on stage, and I will be miked, of course, they may not be able to drown out the scratchiness -- but I will feel supported by the most forgiving audience on the planet, and I'll know it!<br />
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Make no mistakes, the song is quite beautiful, I believe, and deserving to be out in the world after being hidden along with others (to be introduced in the film) when released. I'm able to hear the beauty and relevance in my music -- in the third person. The years of silence, of the shutting down of my artist self, has ended now. I'm excited and loving every minute of the new revelations. But that doesn't mean that I'm not nervous and apprehensive about how the echoes of young Betty will be received; that's probably unavoidable as more of my vulnerabilities are exposed ... .<br />
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If you'll imagine this as being played in 3/4 time (as a waltz), and that the music is simple and readily learned in the singing of it on Sunday. There will be a brief explanation of what inspired the writing of it before we join hands for the singing<br />
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We gather here ... I feel you near ... on this beautiful night<br />
your hand in mine ... this simple sign of love<br />
we span the miles ... we wear the smiles born of sharing this day<br />
your hand in mine ... this simple sign of love</blockquote>
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Your fears ... like mine, can be left behind ... close the spaces between,<br />
let our love flow free... in this moment be as one<br />
though our prophets say ... each a different way, of this truth they'd agree<br />
your hand in mine is a valid sign of love.</blockquote>
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We've traveled far from beyond a star along paths of our lives<br />
still we found our way to this lovely day now here<br />
in our hearts we know peace on Earth can grow from these fingers love warmed<br />
your hand in mine ... this simple sign of love<br />
your hand in mine ... this simple sign of love<br />
your hand in mine ... this simple sign of love<br />
your hand in mine ... this holy sign of love. </blockquote>
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<b><i>After more than a dozen years on the job, I finally hit the place so long dreamed of ...</i></b><br />
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<i>My audience held a black majority made up of local people for the first time</i>. <br />
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I knew that we were expecting a group of 30 at my two o'clock talk, and I'd questioned the wisdom of allowing such a large group to reserve seats in a little theater that only holds 50 people at-a-time, and when -- since Saturday talks are by far the most popular -- (we're currently "sold out" into late November!). In addition, I'm in the theater on both Tuesdays and Thursdays, but Saturday continues to be the day and time most in demand.<br />
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When I asked why such a large group had been allowed to take up most of the seats when I'm <i>perfectly</i> willing to schedule (at a separate day and time) for such, no one seemed to have the reasons just why that was. I quietly thought about it for all of a hurried 5 minutes, and decided that -- for today we'd simply go with it, and then tighten up the process in the future.<br />
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Imagine my surprise when shortly before walking down the back stairway to head for the theater, I happened to look through the gallery window and catch out of the corner of my eye a large gathering of African American women approaching the entrance to the Visitor Center. I realized that this was my audience for "Of Lost Conversations," and that, since the arrangements had been made by telephone, apparently someone knew but had quietly made the exception. And I was so grateful, for whatever reason.<br />
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Add to that the fact that these were mainly women of the Richmond community, people I'd tried to reach out to for more than a decade, but until this moment had failed to attract, at least in significant numbers.<br />
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Given that the black home front history in this city is <i>so</i> important, and without it there is simply no way to account for the demographics of Richmond in the years following the end of WWII. In the year 2004 when I moved to Richmond, the African American population was at 40% with the Latino population at 20%. Those numbers have since reversed, largely due to an in-migration over the decade plus gentrification due to economic factors. It's complicated.<br />
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And of course there are the little known facts that the SS Harriet Tubman, the SS Ethiopia, the SS John Hope, the SS Robert S. Abbott, the SS George Washington Carver, five historically black colleges, etc., were all built and launched in the Kaiser shipyards, and that few were aware of it until now. That 17 victory ships had been named for noted African Americans, and that not only our children had no knowledge of that history, but those <i>who teach them</i> have been completely unaware, at least until this national park was created to honor it.<br />
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Without changing a word. With no compromise because of the racial makeup of my audience, yesterday I was able to share those stories with 30 black women of the community mixed in with members of the general public! What an honor ... . In today's audience were the direct descendants of that generation, yet the City's memory has excluded their history from curricula taught in schools so that their children and grandchildren are bereft of the pride those stories would surely have inspired.<br />
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I could <i>see</i> the pride in those faces yesterday; see the lights go on behind eyes so long blinded by the lack of inclusion in the nation's narrative. I wanted to savor it; to linger with them in that place where I'd worked so hard for so many years to achieve.<br />
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But it was not to be. <br />
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David was waiting in the parking lot to take me home in time to meet Dorian for our usual weekend Disney film on Netflix ... and this day would have made a history of its own in my personal narrative, and that should be enough, at least for now.<br />
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Maybe it's in the <i>Disney-fication</i> of our democracy that the problem lies.<br />
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I need to think on that ... .<br />
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<b><i>Yes, that's just who you think it is ... Gloria Steinem!</i></b><br />
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... and it's about all I can think about today, or at least would be if events of the day weren't threatening to blot out everything of importance in our country and world.<br />
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Woke to the panels on CNN and CSPAN preparing us for the Senate vote for cloture; all in preparation for tomorrow's next steps in the process of seating Judge Brett Kavenaugh on the Supreme Court. <br />
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I'm not certain just why it was that I was still clinging to the notion that sanity would yet prevail, and that those old white men would finally see the error of their ways, and would show respect for Dr. Christine Blasey-Ford by honoring her truth.<br />
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It was not to be.<br />
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Senator Susan Collins of Maine, on whose shoulders rested the fate of that decision, finally gave her 45-minute statement that said all the right words, but little of the truth they were meant to convey. She tried hard to cover all the bases by granting Dr. Ford a nod of acceptance that "... <i>something</i> had surely happened to her, but that it surely wasn't Brett Kavenaugh!"<br />
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Over the next 24 hours the final vote will be taken, but I know longer hold any thoughts for the hoped for outcome that every sensible and frustrated woman in the nation is screaming for.<br />
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But I need to tell you that I've known for several weeks that three friends I'd met while attending the Makers Conference in Hollywood last spring were flying out to attend my talk at the Visitor Center. When I first learned of it from Amy Richards (of Soapbox Productions, NY) it sounded just too good to be true, so I held the news for a few days until it felt comfortable to share. <br />
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I finally trusted it enough to tell Tom Leatherman, our superintendent, but withheld it from the rest of staff. Then a plan formed, and it felt right. I announced to our lead ranger, Elizabeth Tucker, that their visit on October 4th was confirmed, and that I needed our staff to work with me to make it work for us all. We entered the three under the name, Amy Richards, in the reservations book in order to not disclose Gloria's name in print.<br />
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First, my talks have remained fresh and new for me over time by my being able to look into the faces, eyes, of an audience for whom the stories are being heard for the first time. After so many months and years of telling those stories 3 and sometimes 5 times-a-week over a number of years, that has become the way that the excitement of sharing those long-forgotten truths without becoming numb to my own telling is maintained. Without that aspect being honored, the work would become robotic, and I'd probably not be able to continue to do it. There's an emotional component through which I find the energy to keep it real. Without the <i>authenticity</i> the work would be impossible.</blockquote>
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That meant that we needed to keep Gloria's visit under wraps, to not disclose her visit lest the theater become filled with docents, friends, relatives, and I'd be robbed of the "new eyes and faces" that were so vital to my work. <br />
<br />
The secret was successfully kept, and the audience was made up of about 20 elders who arrived on a tour bus, plus others who had made their reservations with no knowledge of her anticipated presence.<br />
<br />
After a lukewarm start -- since I'd had a sleepless night before due to a flu shot that created some discomfort -- but before the end of my talk I hit my stride when the energy kicked in and <i>"Truth"</i> weighed in with its usual force, and it all worked out.<br />
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Gloria, Amy, and Blaine, appeared to be moved by both the short films and my talk, and a leisurely conversation over lunch afterwards. Amy was back on the Red Eye flying back to NY last night. I can't imagine doing that ... .<br />
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I will see them all again soon when, in early November, when I take off for NY events. <br />
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Stay tuned.<br />
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This has been a week like no other, starting with a flower-strewn 97th birthday that was celebrated quietly with Dorian -- watching Netflix movies and eating lavishly buttered popcorn.<br />
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<i>Quiet</i> was a gift onto itself, in the middle of another fraught-filled daily schedule that defies custom, practice, or even common sense! What other woman approaching the century mark would dare to even attempt the life I'm leading?<br />
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And next week, month, year, holds promise to deliver more of the same, since "The World" doesn't appear to be slowing down one iota, and I continue to rise up to meet it, sometimes foolishly, I suppose.<br />
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I'm enjoying the book readings/signings, and audiences seem to be as well.<br />
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<i>Note: "Of Lost Conversations" is the title of my talks that occur 3-5 times weekly in our theater at the Visitor Education Center at Rosie the Riveter/WWII Home Front National Historical Park. Reservations are necessary due to limited seating, and can be arranged for by calling (510) 232-5050 x 0. Groups over 20 can arrange for a special presentation at another day and time in addition to those listed below. Lead Ranger, Elizabeth Tucker, schedules such events.</i></blockquote>
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Tuesday October 2 "Of Lost Conversations" (2:00-3:00)<br />
Wednesday October 3 Radio/video interview for Manufacturing Radio NJ<br />
Thursday October 4 "Of Lost Conversations" (with special guests!) (2:00-3:00)<br />
Saturday October 6 "Of Lost Conversation" (2:00-3:00 pm) (11:00)<br />
Sunday October 7 Phone interview with two middle-school girls in W. Palm Beach, Fla<br />
Sunday October 7 "A Community Conversation" (South Berkeley Senior Center)<br />
Monday October 8 Phone interview with S.F. Weekly re S.F. Litquake (11:00)<br />
Monday October 8 Book Signing at Book Passages in San Carlos<br />
Tuesday October 9 "Of Lost Conversations" (2:00-3:00 pm)<br />
Thursday October 11 "Of Lost Conversations (11:00 am-12:00 pm)<br />
Saturday October 13 "Of lost Conversations (2:00-3:00 pm)<br />
Monday October 15 Storytelling at "Litquake", San Francisco book festival<br />
Tuesday October 16 "Of Lost Conversations" (11:00 am-12:00 pm) for high school class<br />
Tuesday October 16 "Of Lost Conversations (2:00-3:00 pm)<br />
Thursday October 18 Interview re Port Chicago tragedy with journalist<br />
Thursday October 18 "Of Lost Conversations (11:00 am-12:00 pm)<br />
Saturday October 20 "Of Lost Conversations (2:00-3:00 pm)<br />
Sunday October 21 Fly to Irvine for book/signing reading for Orange County Librarians<br />
Tuesday October 23 "Of Lost Conversations" (2:00-3:00 pm)<br />
Wednesday October 24 Facebook live interview with Sheryl Sandburg (all day)<br />
Thursday October 25 "Of Lost Conversations" (11:00 am-12:00 pm)<br />
Saturday October 27 "Of Lost Conversations" (2:00-3:00 pm)<br />
Sunday October 28 Into the studio to record the audio book for Hay House<br />
Monday October 29 Into the studio to record the audio book for Hay House<br />
Tuesday October 30 Fly to Southern California to tape Steve Harvey Show (all day)<br />
Wednesday October 31 Into the studio to complete audio book for Hay House<br />
Thursday November 1 "Of Lost Conversations" (11:00 am-12:00 pm)<br />
Thursday November 1 Book/reading/signing, San Leandro City Hall (5:00-8:00 pm)<br />
Saturday November 3 "Of Lost Conversations" (2:00-3:00 pm)<br />
Sunday November 4 Kensington Unitarian/Universalist Church, Berkeley (2:45-4:30 pm)<br />
Tuesday November 6 "Of Lost Conversations" (11:00 am-12:00 pm)<br />
Wednesday November 7 AAUW Book Signing, Pleasant Hill, CA<br />
Thursday November 8 "Of Lost Conversations" (11:00-12:00)<br />
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Then I'll fly to New York and the East Coast for events associated with Glamour Magazine to be held 11th, 12th, 14th. Will return around the 16th. More about this as the dates approach. <i>Very</i> exciting, I promise, but not to be revealed (on orders from Glamour) until the December issue hits the stands on November 6th.<br />
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As an aside, half the fun of having these incredible experiences is sharing the anticipation with those near and far. Having to keep secrets about such things is both difficult and, at times, virtually impossible. Spoils the adventure in some ways. I've only been <i>reasonably</i> successful, but not completely. <br />
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Monday November 19 Town & Gown Club book reading/signing , Berkeley<br />
Saturday November 24 "Of Lost Conversations" (2:00-3:00)<br />
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Break for Thanksgiving<br />
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Saturday December 8 "Of Lost Conversations" (2:00-3:00)<br />
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Dates in December will be erratic and at this point unpredictable, what with it being the holiday season, and by then fatigue will surely have set in, and it will be time for me to <i>"... rest ye with those merry gentlemen"</i> or collapse totally!<br />
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In December there will be the introduction of one of my original songs by the Oakland Symphony on the 16th at the Paramount Theater in Oakland. The National Parks Conservancy Association West Coast annual meeting in San Francisco to which I'm a participant. The Berkeley Public Library Association is holding their Authors dinner at which I've been invited to participate in February.<br />
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I will copy this entry to the "Sign my name to freedom" pages, and will add to them as needed.Betty Reid Soskinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09249814647246569575noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5822713.post-90277512948747874972018-09-23T13:32:00.002-07:002018-09-24T12:19:27.190-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBYG4YbsypGrEaNriNlQdHCrzdcXZGu_yFmt61WwwEsrWtXqXKj6n3-uIRX2vj63e_31ZZOoWkp-9Qyv5zpUDpaG6KJGDllYbg1bUW2hkO5hn_d0MiufGn9MrzAbHlEAw1V-ttxA/s1600/th.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="109" data-original-width="109" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBYG4YbsypGrEaNriNlQdHCrzdcXZGu_yFmt61WwwEsrWtXqXKj6n3-uIRX2vj63e_31ZZOoWkp-9Qyv5zpUDpaG6KJGDllYbg1bUW2hkO5hn_d0MiufGn9MrzAbHlEAw1V-ttxA/s320/th.jpg" width="320" /></a><i><b>New "old" edges to grow from ... .</b></i><br />
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It was the Democratic Convention when the indomitable Fanny Lou Hamer made her courageous attempt to seat the Mississippi Freedom Party but failed against the ruthless resistance led by Lyndon Johnson. I'd watched on the small screen with alternating hope and horror, praying that the nation would rise up to this daring challenge, but was not surprised that we didn't. This was at that time the ... state of the Union, unapologetically.<br />
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Skip to some time later, when then President Lyndon Johnson, after the tumultuous Summer of 1964 and the Birmingham Church Bombings, the discovery of the bodies of the brutally slain 3 civil rights workers in Mississippi by the KuKluxKlan; the fire hoses and police dogs crushing attack on the valiant marchers at the bridge in Selma, Alabama; and -- finally -- Johnson appearing before the American people and the watching World to announce the "New Order" that would usher in the long-delayed social changes that would culminate in a new era for people like me -- the final fulfillment of America's promise.<br />
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I'll never forget how that speech ended, with the same man who had worked so hard to prevent Fanny Lou Hamer from succeeding at that convention -- and on the world stage -- ending his historic speech with, "... and we SHALL overcome!"<br />
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I felt deeply offended. Unforgiving. Not willing to accept this travesty, this expropriation of the anthem that held such meaning for so many over that tortuous and horrific decade. <br />
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It was shortly thereafter that I was asked to sing at a Unitarian Universalist Church service, and was still stinging from that dreadful usurpation by now repentant Lyndon Johnson.<br />
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I needed a hand holding song, but "We shall overcome" had been forever tainted for me.<br />
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I wrote and sang this on that Sunday (after asking those gathered to join hands):<br />
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>We gather here, I feel you near, on this beautiful day</b></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>we span the miles -- we wear the smiles born of sharing this day</b></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>your hand in mine, this simple sign of love </b></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>Your fears, like mine... can be left behind ... close the spaces between </b></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>let our love flow free ... in this moment be ... as one ... </b></i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b> though our prophets say ... each a different way ... of this truth they'd agree </b></i></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>your hand in mine is a valid sign of love. </b></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>We've traveled far, from beyond a star -- along paths of our lives </b></i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>still we found our way to this lovely day ... now here </b></i></span></blockquote>
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<i><b><span style="background-color: #eeeeee;">In our hearts we know peace on earth can grow from these fingers, love </span><span style="background-color: #eeeeee;">warmed </span></b></i></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><i><b>your hand in mine, this holy sign of love.</b></i></span></blockquote>
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The song was never published, nor did I ever sing it again after that first time. However, it was burned into my brain, and can be called up as if it was written yesterday. The issues continue to be unresolved with voter suppression still with us, and 'We shall Overcome' now rarely heard but still meaningful in many parts of the country.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPNTUFgojwPKsk3WNUADfY3UYqdxGUmV7taAj_ybwlejhKg3C-TtOVnvn35cBvyMy2xrfsLoKNw8cvbacnghoMuDO8ydigUcliQlS4UiOMCi_c5VTrpno33n5UOYGlmNGZeRZaJg/s1600/920x920.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="background-color: #eeeeee;"><img border="0" data-original-height="613" data-original-width="920" height="266" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPNTUFgojwPKsk3WNUADfY3UYqdxGUmV7taAj_ybwlejhKg3C-TtOVnvn35cBvyMy2xrfsLoKNw8cvbacnghoMuDO8ydigUcliQlS4UiOMCi_c5VTrpno33n5UOYGlmNGZeRZaJg/s400/920x920.jpg" width="400" /></span></a>I learned last night that this song may be introduced on December 16th at the annual concert of the Oakland Symphony under the direction of conductor Michael Morgan. It may involve the Oakland Interfaith Gospel Choir, under the direction of a long time friend, Terence Kelly. At the moment I'm being urged to join the choir in the singing of it, but that's still something I'm feeling resistant to, but being tempted at least. My voice is no longer the instrument it once was, and the only thing I have going for me is the fact that it would be one more item from my fast-dwindling bucket list, and the fact that I probably would have the most forgiving audience on the planet!<br />
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I cannot imagine a more glorious way to end this fabulous and magical year, can you?<br />
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