... and I'm serving notice on the nation that I'll give y'all about a dozen years to get your act together enough so that these chats don't have to consist of warnings of how to act should he encounter problems with authority, "keep your hands always in sight!" etc.
At this point he's being loved unconditionally, and is interacting with his environment with complete trust.
I'm praying that I and others of like mind have done enough world-changing in our time to give him and others of his generations at least an even shot at success in life. And, that the necessary social changes keep pace with global warming and rising sea levels that are no longer debatable. That's a lot to ask, but ask it I shall. His precious little life may well depend on it. Today's headlines (Ferguson, Baltimore, New York, Cleveland, etc.) would suggest that we have a long way to go before progress is measurable, but I'm optimistic when looking back at past successes that I've seen over a long lifetime.
Of all of the little boys like Kayden, one or another may have brought into the world some of the answers to the unprecedented problems we'll be facing in the next decade or two. We know not just who they are, but we cannot afford to not give each the greatest education and opportunity to contribute if we're to save ourselves and our place in the universe.
Wish I could hang around long enough to continue to influence what comes next ... .
Meanwhile, the work goes on, and the thing that I'm fighting so hard to forget is the fact that at a recent off-site presentation -- during the Q&A following my talk, a suburban woman in her middle years raised her hand to declare proudly before an all-white audience, "... I watched The Help twice, and I even read the book!"